About Me
Let’s start with the basics; I am half Korean and queer as all hell (read: My attraction to men manifests rarely and only in specific instances; as far as male subs reading this are concerned, it may as well not exist). I reside in Ontario, Canada. I stand tall at five feet, nine inches, though all that matters is that I am always above, and you are below. I attribute My verbose, eloquent manner of expression to My English degree, and I take great pleasure in flexing My literary muscles through My Domme work, be it via crafting delicious one-on-one textual fantasies or through the composition of My findom eroticas. I am reasonably well-travelled and have spent time living in both Scotland and South Korea. I also enjoy partaking in both culinary and musical arts and am deeply passionate about social justice.
Now for the more…salacious details. After all, even Goddesses have origin stories.
For a number of years, I dabbled casually in more mainstream forms of BDSM as a switch. One fateful day, I came to discover financial domination and was immediately enamoured with the concept. BDSM is all about power exchange; indeed, in today's late-stage capitalist society, there seems no more significant method of exchanging power than cold, hard cash (or, rather, numbers that represent cash, because technology). Not only does this power give money its own erotic energy, but as a Woman, it is My belief that We are owed reparations from males to compensate for the centuries of oppression inflicted upon Us. Female Supremacy is the future.
That said, I also accept female/enby finsubs; I deserve worship, pure and simple, and subs of all genders are welcome at My feet.
As a Domme…
As a multifaceted human being, My Domme style is also multifaceted. I can be a strict Mistress, a nurturing Mommy, a greedy Goddess, a sadistic Daddy, and many things in between. Each dynamic is different, and I enjoy exploring with each sub I interact with - so long as you remember that I am above, and you are below.
I like to approach findom with a shadow of irony; despite what My, well, everything might imply, I have quite the sense of humour. How could one NOT find forcing a man to pay to jack off to a picture of My homemade bread funny?
Ultimately, we’re all just sacks of meat being controlled by a series of neural synapses wandering this hellish earthly plane. I seek to indulge My hedonism and enjoy Myself. But make no mistake; regardless of the particulars of each session or dynamic, one thing remains consistent: I will train you to glean pleasure only from Mine, rewire your brain to become addicted to My approval, My attention, My rejection…addicted to Me. My ability to worm My way into your fragile mind is unmatched.
About you…
You may be wondering…what sort of submissive could possibly be worthy of such a Divine Being?
Above all else, you must be selfless. So long as you serve Me with the purest of intentions, the rest matters little. You intend to send often and without expectation of reciprocation, never taking more than you give. You will sacrifice to give Me more. You will respect My time; I have a full, flourishing life outside of findom, and no inferior human wallet will ever supersede that. Topping from the bottom is easily detected, immediately reprimanded, and may result in dismissal. Never forget that I do not need you or your money, and that the more you ask for, the less you shall receive.
Secondary to selflessness is a willingness to communicate. We are adults. As all-powerful as I am, I am not a mind reader. I have much to offer, and I need you to tell Me what it is you seek, lest you risk disappointment and/or dissatisfaction. What kind of dynamic are you looking for? Do you wish to be treated as nothing more than My dehumanized financial object? My sad, rejected loser? A disciple poised to worship? My loyal dog keeping post at My feet? Something outside or in between? So long as your requests are accompanied by cash laid selflessly in offering, you’ll find I can be very gracious.
Finally, I value initiative. I will not, nor should I have to, chase you down to demand service. You will send without being told. Sieze every opportunity, no matter how small, to make My life better. Serving Me should feel natural, and acting as your Superior should feel effortless.
Do note that I endeavour operate ethically and to practice SSC and RACK; however, this requires a degree of cooperation on your side. If it becomes clear that I am being used as a virtual fleshlight, I have no qualms using you right back. D/s is a collaborative effort.